QUOTE(notreallyhere @ Dec 2 2007, 11:12 PM)

DuncePolice, your baby is not cold in the ground...he's warm in Hashem's arms, being nurtured in His loving embrace....

QUOTE(krumlikeapretzel @ Dec 2 2007, 11:48 PM)

I'm sure your baby is always in the warmth of your heart.
Sigh. By now I can believe that. But for the first few months after the death, all I wished I could do was hug him tightly and make him warm. I just couldn't stop thinking how cold it must be for him. Illogical, I know. But nothing about the death of a baby is logical. I mean, he was just warm and safe in my womb. I couldn't, or maybe didn't want to believe that he really can't feel.