Lets say your fiance has a group of friends from high school who want to take your fiance out before the wedding. Little did he/she know the friends planned for a stripper to attend the party. What would you expect your fiance to do once the stripper appeared.
The friends have already paid for it and it completely slipped you and your fiance's mind to tell them that this isn't what you do. (assuming the kind of stripper that doesn't touch)