QUOTE(sfas emes email from torah.org)
PS. A word about dialogue. Many people have the practice of saying to the person who has yahrzeit : "The Neshama should have an aliya." The person who has yahrzeit responds :"And Klal Yisroel should have a yeshu'a." To which one replies: "Ahd bi'as Hagoel". And as a parting good wish, one adds, "Bime'hayra be'yameinu."
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