1. There's no siman for the three weeks. Is there a single halachah that is applicable to the three weeks or is the entire "bein ha-mitzarim" period an artificial construct and based on relatively late minhag?
As far as I can tell, the absolutely only thing that's anywhere in sha's is that thing about not going out alone because it's a dangerous time and therefore people don't stam travel as per the last se'if in the shulchan aruch. Oh wait a sec, even that isn't in sha's because according to sha's it's from the first to the sixteenth of tammuz so we have it all backwards where we ignore sha's and make up our own practices.
Forget about where it came from that the three weeks is a dangerous time, but while we're at it, why is that thing in sha's about not going out alone during the first half of tammuz totally ignored?
2. The last line of the Tur is pretty strong about not bathing for shabbat chazon: "ve-nohagu ha-kol she-lo likaneis le-veit ha-merchatz be-shabat zo ve-asur lishanot minhag avoteinu". So of all the nine days, why is erev shabbat the one time when people tend to be the most lenient about finding a heter to shower?

