Say you go to a bar mitzvah of your close friends kid, it's beautiful, everyone is praising the boy's midos, his rabeim seem to love him.
Fast forward a week later you are getting undressed and look out your window to find the bar mitzvah boy with a pair of binoculars staring right at your window.
How do you handle this? Do you confront him or his parents? Do you let it go because he's at that age?

Why aren't your shades closed?

because your room faces the back of your house and you aren't used to closing them

Are you male, or female?

answer for both

Look, if a kid peeped on me all he'd see is me staring back with my own set of binoculars into his (18+) college sister's room. Obviously, I wouldn't have the moral high ground to say anything. We's just nod at each other knowingly - the ancient sign of the Peeper.

bad excuse. In my opinion, it's your fault. You should close your shades.


How do you know what the sign is?

So you waited until the day she turned 18 to peep on her? You want us to believe that? Also, there is a difference between a male peeping on a female, and a male peeping on a male, at least in my book.

So the binoculars don't bother you? (and you wouldnt tell his parents?)

I didn't say that. I am saying the fact you even saw anything is completely your fault.

IF I saw the binoculaurs (let's say it was during the day and I was looking out my window, not getting dressed) I would assume he got a new pair and was looking through them and make no negative assumptions (until I read this h.com thread that is) and probably next time I saw his parents, I would say something like 'Did BM Bachur get binoculaurs for a BM present?' IF they said 'Yes, why" or no, why I would probably tell them why, and not think of it for more than a second. (of course now that I read this thread, I might keep my mouth shut)

I feel bad for corrupting your mind.

I don't get how the first line has relevance to this situation.

Just saying that everyone seems to think he is a good boy

Yet my Erev YK Mikva thread was locked and I was threatened with a ban....

mosheshmeal
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My uncle always joked that he wanted a viewing gallery in the ladies mikva.

Well, the are websites he can subscribe to.

mosheshmeal
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The world is just jealous of us belzers. They know they'll never have as nice a house...