QUOTE (Thingymijig @ Mar 2 2008, 08:47 PM)

We may be in agreement over this, i just don't get what you're getting at here. Yes, i am implying that there are rabbi's that have worked to get their title, and deserve it too, whilst the 'rebbetzin' has simply been married to him, and received her title. Whether the man deserves to be called 'rabbi' or not,he has gone and done something to get that title. His wife hasn't, yet hopefully the typical shul rebbetzin would live up to the title, as i mentioned in my first post.
Actually, my point was at least partly that some men have not done "something" to get the title. They just append it. Case in point, I have never asked my rabbanim where they were ordained, and which kind of smicha they have. My first rav may indeed only have had smicha in kashrus for all I know (though he's a big Talmid Chacham in the opinion of just about everyone who knows him).
My other point was that "shul rebbetzin" is only relevant in shul oriented communities. Here in Israel we tend to not be as shul centric (even while attending possibly more often), our communities tend to be yeshiva oriented, or neighborhood oriented, or ummm, community oriented.
Otherwise, yes we agree that some rabbi's "deserve" the title, and others don't, and anyone who has appended "rabbi" to his name automatically appends to his wife's name "rebbetzin" ...
Which brings me back to my main point, which is that when someone has the title "rabbi", we seem to have certain expectations of him, whether that may be his wife living up to her title or the piece of paper that may have allowed him to append "rabbi" to his name.
QUOTE (Shemmy @ Mar 2 2008, 11:50 PM)

Isn't "rebbitzin" simply the title given to a rabbi's wife? In the Sephardic and Mizrahi world, "rabbanith" is simply that, a title.
Yes.
What this thread has helped me see is that I have never really clarified what I consider to be "rabbinic" qualifying education/certification. And no matter what definition I would give myself, there would be many exceptions on both sides of the equation (those with it who don't deserve the title rabbi, and those without it who certainly do).