Do you call your SDJ during work hours? Do you deem it (in)appropriate to do so? Does it matter if you've met/or had a date(s) with them already?


[dan l'chaf zechut- maybe it's the only free time he has to make a call]

I did after a few weeks.

If it's ok with both parties (and they're doing it in a way that neither will get fired), I don't see what the problem is.

I call my husband at work almost every day (and visa versa) so a serioius SDJ (contradiction?) would be similar.

if it's something more or less serious (many dates)

if it's before the first date, only if he/the third party warned me before.