QUOTE (Spot @ Mar 5 2008, 11:59 AM)

i like this system. the school used to do something similar as well, but their thing was that you got a basket only if 5 or more families chose your name, otherwise you just got a card.
1) it's a great fundraiser
2) it helps you cut costs while helping the school/shul (i.e., instead of making 20 MM, you only have to make 5 because the rest are going through the school/shul)
3) less hassle running around on purim day
QUOTE (Kalashnikover_Rebbe @ Mar 5 2008, 02:00 PM)

What's the problem??? The mitzvah is to SEND 2 items of food to someone.
Themes, baskets and intense planning starting immediately after Chanukkah are not part of the mitzvah....
I wasn't going to go into my issues with this system but here it goes:
1. It becomes a huge popularity contest.
2. There is pressure on families to go through the shul because people will notice if their name is missing.
3. It becomes a huge popularity contest.
4. You can't send to anyone not on the list.
5. It becomes a huge popularity contest.
QUOTE (Red Hare @ Mar 5 2008, 02:01 PM)

don't forget that i'm from the south. y'all is already plural.
Correct.
"Y'all" is plural as in "What do y'all think?" or "I really like y'all's new kitchen decor."
"All y'all" is also plural but emphasizes an inclusiveness.
So, "Y'all are sinners" corresponds to "You (pl.) are sinners." but "All y'all are sinners." corresponds to "Each and every one of you from the the tiniest babe in arms to the oldest crone are utter and complete sinners."