QUOTE (Goldfish @ Mar 14 2008, 05:54 AM)

I'm bothered by the fact that you're bothered by that. So the people who died in the Dolphinarium (sp?) bombing are less kadosh than the people that died in Mercaz Harav?
For the record (although I hope it doesn't have to be stated): I am saddened by the deaths of any Jews (and many non-Jews).
However, I think it's the actions of the deceased that make them kadosh (not talking about frumkeit here). As was pointed the Jews who died in the crusades chose to die as Jews rather live as non-Jews. That's a powerful statement. Many Jews in the Holocaust chose to die with dignity and pride in being Jewish. Another powerful statement.
Someone who dies in a bus bombing, for instance, does not have the opportunity to make such a statement. Regardless of religiosity. That doesn't make their death better or less of a tragedy. But, just like countless other Jews who die tragically (car accidents, natural disasters, childhood cancer, gang violence, etc.), I'm not convinced it's al kiddush Hashem.