I was troubled recently by a dream, in which I ran into a girl whom I haven't seen in about 25 years, when I was on break from college. (Long ago, someone told me that she was married and had four children, but I don't know if that's true or not.)

I'm sure that part of what troubled me is that I'd have a dream about someone that I haven't seen in a quarter century, and especially since I believe her to be married. And maybe thinking of lost opportunities, though she was the one who said "no."

I don't remember much about my dream; just something like:

In the shadow of G-d: "Wow, I can't believe it's really you! It's been a long time."

(At) the head of G-d: "Yes, Bezalel, it has been a very long time."

In the shadow of G-d: "Well, how have you been? How has your life turned out?"

(At) the head of G-d: "Not so good, Bezalel. I'm all alone."

In the shadow of G-d: "You know, Rochelle, I told you that I wanted to marry you."

(At) the head of G-d: "Bezalel, we were only ten years old!"

That's all I remember, but I woke up and I was disturbed that I'd been dreaming about her.

go find her, make it happen

I'd track her down--not so difficult in the Internet era. If she is currently married, then let her be. If she is unmarried, then contact her and see what happens.

A Jewish but non-Orthodox co-worker is now marrying an old girlfriend. They dated in high school, but then she married another guy and had four children. My co-worker never married and then she got divorced from the other guy. They got back together a little over a year ago and will wed in May.

If the woman in your dream is unavailable or things don't work out with her, maybe this is a sign from G-d that you should be more open to older women, not just 30 year olds.